Jim Adler | The Tough, Smart Lawyer
By Jim Adler November 2, 2015

After a loved one dies in a car wreck or other accident, survivors often experience wrenching grief. To cope with their grief, they may need to seek grief counseling or therapy.

While our law firm is filled with compassionate people, we are not grief counseling professionals and instead advise our clients to seek grief counseling elsewhere. However, our injury lawyers have seen and helped thousands of people who face grief to varying degrees, and we are well aware of the enormity of grief, the toll it can take and the need to overcome it with therapy or grief counseling. You can rest assured we will handle your injury or death claim with sensitivity for your loss.

Losing a parent, child, sibling, spouse or close friend can be one of the most emotionally difficult times of anyone’s life. Such grief can turn into clinical depression, which is a debilitating medical condition. So it’s vital that those who are suffering from grief get skilled if not professional help in dealing with it.

How to Choose a Grief Counselor

As for how to choose a grief counselor, you have many possible avenues to explore. Before you begin, it’s important to acknowledge that grief is not a form of weakness. Rather, grief is normal, and most human beings experience it as they go through life.

Grief can involve a mix of many different feelings, some of them conflicting. A person who is grieving may feel regret, anger, sadness, guilt, yearning or meaninglessness — individually, or all at the same time.

To cope with grief, look for help from places like churches, community organizations, hospitals, support groups and therapy centers. The important thing is to find a safe, professional, caring environment that’s the best fit for you.

You may also consider meeting with a licensed clinical social worker, professional grief counselor or psychologist.

You may want to choose between group counseling, as with a support group where you share feelings with others, and individual counseling, where you meet one-on-one with a counselor. Again, choose the best fit for you, because grief, while common, is an individual thing that affects different people in different ways.

Grief counseling can help you learn coping skills to get through this difficult time in your life. But you also may learn to accept your grief and experience it in order that you then can move past it.

You also can learn from instructional books on dealing with grief. You can look in stores or online for possibilities, but some include How to Go On Living When Someone You Love Dies, Transforming Traumatic Grief and Lifetimes.

Traffic Fatalities and Grief

There’s a strong connection between traffic fatalities and grief. Persons who die suddenly and violently in a car wreck leave a wrenching loss with their loved ones.

Their ensuing trauma, emotional upheaval and grief can lead to even worse problems. These problems can include depression, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), substance abuse, trouble remembering things or concentrating, mood swings and relationship difficulties.

There isn’t a right or wrong way to feel grief. You must accept and deal with it in the best way for you. Our law firm trusts and hopes that you will learn to cope with your grief and go on with your life, while always honoring the memory of those you have lost.

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Tori Barroga
14:17 11 May 17
I am a Patrol Deputy for the Sheriff Office and while working one night, a drunk driver crossed the center stripe on the highway and struck my patrol vehicle head on with his pick up truck. Needless to say we (the drunk driver and I) were both lucky to survive, as the accident occurred at highway speeds. Following my release from the hospital, I knew that I would need to have someone represent me. My employer was happy to represent me in regards to prosecuting the driver for criminal charges but, can do little in respect to the recovery of financial losses for medical bills, pain and discomfort, time lost from work etc... This is how my relationship with Jim Adler and Associates began. Yep, you probably guessed correctly when you think of what made me choose the "Texas Hammer" to represent me. Those half obnoxious, half way entertaining commercials and radio announcements most Texans have been seeing and hearing on the TV and radio for years instantly came to mind. Yes, I wanted to "hammer" this S.O.B. for trying to kill me but, more importantly I was worried about the costs associated with the life long injuries I had sustained as a result of this drunk driver's negligent behavior. I contacted Jim Adler and Associates and so began our relationship. I was immediately surprised by the prompt attention and the expression of genuine concern for my well being that I received from the employees of Jim Adler's office. Now as you can imagine, lawyers are not a breed that is held in very high regard by people in my profession but, my experiences with Jim Adler's office and his employees have forced me to amend my way of thinking, at least on the civil side of the house anyway. I have to chuckle when I say that because my experience as a client of Jim Adler's firm has been exceptionally pleasant. So before I venture down one of the stereotypical and infinite number of rabbit holes associated with the relationship between members of law enforcement and lawyers; I will do my best to stay focused on my experience with Jim Adler & Associates. Upon being informed that my case had been accepted by Jim Adler's office; I was contacted by Iris Sanchez who informed me that she was to be my case manager and any questions, comments and concerns could be directed to her. I was pleasantly surprised to receive regular calls from Iris assisting with my medical appointments and future follow up appointments. Iris had informed me that Jim Adler's son, Bill Adler would be handling my case and I was even more surprised to receive several calls from Bill to discuss my case. Now you might be thinking "what's the big deal" with the person who is representing you contacting you? In reality, you are correct in that it isn't a big deal but, what is noteworthy and what separates Jim Adler's Office from the multitude of other lawyers is the genuine expressions of concern and the desire Bill Adler conveyed to me to do their best to help me. I felt an immediate connection and instantly realized I had made the correct choice in contacting Jim Adler & Associates to handle my case. One thing I think lawyers and police officers can agree on is the proverbial wheels of justice turn very slowly. Months go by and our professional relationship is never neglected. Through the unwavering attention of Iris Sanchez and Bill Adler himself, I never felt "out of the loop" so to speak and always had a clear understanding of where my case was at in regards to the legal process. In conclusion, I know my brief description of my experiences with Bill Adler and, his assistant Iris Sanchez, cannot provide the credit they deserve. Together they have done an outstanding job representing their firm/employer. If you are seeking a great firm to represent your legal interests and, take comfort in establishing a professional relationship that feels more like a friendship than a casual business acquaintance, then I highly suggest Jim Adler & Associates.read more
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01:20 06 May 17
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Lorenzo Preston
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